Monday, November 7, 2011

小悦悦案件路人“黑衣男子”抗议媒体污蔑其“冷血”

  小悦悦案件路人“黑衣男子”抗议媒体污蔑其“冷血”
    声称要状告南方电视台和《羊城晚报》
  
  
    C&K通讯社2011年10月30日电(记者 思宁)今天中午,C&K通讯社收到了自称在小悦悦案件报道中被称为“冷血路人”之一的“黑衣男子”的电子邮件。他抗议南方电视台和《羊城晚报》污蔑他是“冷血路人”,声称要到广州提起名誉权诉讼。
    这封电子邮件的标题是:《我不是“冷血路人”》。正文如下:
    我是被南方电视台指控的小悦悦案件视频中所谓“十八个冷血路人”之一,是视频中17时29分24秒骑摩托车路过现场的“黑衣男子”。对污蔑我是“冷血路人”的虚假新闻,我表示抗议。
    其实,我是一个经常关心照顾他人的热心人。10月13日傍晚的实际情形是:我骑摩托车路过时,看到左侧有人倒在地上,立即刹车扭头查看。摩托车尾灯在刹车时亮起来,照亮了附近的地面,可以看出那是一名女童,似乎摔倒受伤。我估计女童来自旁边的店铺人家。于是,我驱车向前几米右拐,在路口一家店铺门口停下,指着女童倒地的位置告诉可能是店老板的一个男子,说那边有个女童可能是摔倒受伤躺在那边。那个男子向女童倒地的方向瞄了一下,对我说:噢,小孩摔倒了,你走吧,我就过去看看。当时,我估计那个男子应该认识女童,或许就是女童的亲戚、邻居,会去搀扶处理的,于是我就驾车离开了。这个过程的镜头,在网上有许多视频可以证实。视频中的17时29分24秒,我骑摩托车出现在镜头里。停车观察几秒钟后,17时29分30秒,我车停在路口的一家店铺门口,指着女童倒地的位置与店铺门口一个男子讲话。
    10月15日,南方电视台《今日一线》节目播出小悦悦案件视频(http://video.sina.com.cn/p/news/s/v/2011-10-16/015661529745.html)。主持人在播放视频前说:“十多个路人一次一次地走过,竟然都冷血地当作什么都没有看见。”该视频播放到我刹车查看小悦悦时,突然剪裁掉我向路口那家店铺的男子指着小悦悦倒地处讲话的镜头,跳跃到一对母女路人的镜头。南方电视台同一天播出的彭彭的粤语版节目《今日最争议-女孩被撞18路人漠然你点睇?》(http://tvsnews.act.hitvs.cn/video/videoplay-379563-1.htm)中,也是这样剪裁视频的。显然,这是故意向公众隐瞒我看到小悦悦后关切、指点、告知的真实经过,污蔑我是见死不救的“冷血路人”。为了证明我“冷血”,南方电视台竟然采用这种违背新闻职业道德和专业规范的卑鄙手法,实在令人气愤。
    10月16日,《羊城晚报》头版发表周松、钟传芳、许琛文的报道《两车先后碾过两岁女童 十多冷血路人见死不救》(http://www.ycwb.com/ePaper/ycwb/html/2011-10/16/content_1232620.htm),同样污蔑我是见死不救的“冷血路人”,还配发了六张“冷血路人”的视频截图,其中第五张就是我。(思宁注:见题图)报道正文中说明为:“黑衣男子开摩托车经过,不断回望小悦悦。”《羊城晚报》选择这张截图,而不选择我向那家店铺的男子指点、告知的视频截图,也属于断“图”取义的歪曲真相,也构成了对我的污蔑。即使《羊城晚报》没有一手的视频,只是利用南方电视台剪裁的视频,也要负新闻事实审核不严,轻信南方电视台的错误。
    10月21日,南方电视台在报道《悦悦10月21日凌晨抢救无效离世》(http://tvsnews.act.hitvs.cn/video/videoplay-380593-1.htm)时,还采用唱歌的方式配上字幕:“两岁的小悦悦/离开了我们/她最后一眼看到的世界/是迎面压过的车轮/和十八个冷血无情的路人”这是对我的再次污蔑。
    虽然全国还有其他媒体对我进行类似的污蔑,但相当多依据的就是较早报道小悦悦案件,并通过视频剪裁污蔑我“冷血”的南方电视台和《羊城晚报》。

  南方电视台和《羊城晚报》污蔑我“冷血”“见死不救”,是对我的侮辱、诽谤,损害了我的人格尊严。从视频上认出是我的一些人就根据媒体上述污蔑,骂我是“冷血路人”,还有网民“人肉搜索”并威胁我,在精神上给我带来了很大压力,破坏了我的工作和生活环境。
    《中华人民共和国宪法》第三十八条规定:“中华人民共和国公民的人格尊严不受侵犯。禁止用任何方法对公民进行侮辱、诽谤和诬告陷害。”
    《中华人民共和国民法通则》第一百零一条规定:“公民、法人享有名誉权,公民的人格尊严受法律保护,禁止用侮辱、诽谤等方式损害公民、法人的名誉。”第一百二十条第一款规定:“公民的姓名权、肖像权、名誉权、荣誉权受到侵害的,有权要求停止侵害,恢复名誉,消除影响,赔礼道歉,并可以要求赔偿损失。”
    《最高人民法院关于确定民事侵权精神损害赔偿责任若干问题的解释》第一条规定:“自然人因下列人格权利遭受非法侵害,向人民法院起诉请求赔偿精神损害的,人民法院应当依法予以受理:(一)生命权、健康权、身体权;(二)姓名权、肖像权、名誉权、荣誉权;(三)人格尊严权、人身自由权。违反社会公共利益、社会公德侵害他人隐私或者其他人格利益,受害人以侵权为由向人民法院起诉请求赔偿精神损害的,人民法院应当依法予以受理。”
    对照上述宪法、法律和司法解释的规定,南方电视台和《羊城晚报》应当承担侵犯我的人格尊严的法律责任,应当停止对我的污蔑,恢复我的名誉,消除失实报道的不良影响,向我赔礼道歉。我还要到广州向当地人民法院起诉南方电视台和《羊城晚报》,要求精神损害赔偿。
    截至发稿时,记者尚不能证实该“黑衣男子”的真实身份。但该“黑衣男子”表示,他正在寻求国内知名的证据法学专家和名誉权纠纷专业律师的帮助。如果南方电视台和《羊城晚报》没有令他满意的改正错误的回应,他准备委托律师起诉,以讨回公道。不过,他没有透露要求精神损害赔偿的金额。
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  附相关文章链接:
  1.《小悦悦案件非主流反思讨论会周六举办》
  http://sining88.blog.sohu.com/189204077.html
  2.《陈贤妹不该这样救小悦悦》
  http://club.kdnet.net/dispbbs.asp?page=1&boardid=1&id=7875126
  3.《C&K社:未曾披露的幕后》
  http://newser.bokee.com/6822934.html
  

Sunday, November 6, 2011

说说是不是可以通过立法惩治见死不救

如果见死不救是因为冷漠,我觉得可以通过立法制裁,但是我国这个国情是见死不救多数是因为人与人之间的信任缺失,这不是通过立法惩治见死不救就可以改变的。而且,可以预见,如果信任缺失的原因不得的改善,这样的立法,反而会使得社会秩序更加紊乱。

犯罪分子可以抓住这个机会,实施更加丰富的犯罪手段,因为犯罪分子本来就是要触犯法律,结果装病找机会施害帮助他的人,使得犯罪手段更加容易,因为受害人需要和装病罪犯近距离接触而且多数在不容易自我的姿态中。抢劫财物汽车,强奸,绑架都容易实施很多,因为潜在被害人如果不对装病者施救,就是违法,而普通群众哪里有辨别真病装病的能力。

即使不是犯罪,如果和前几天19岁青年装病测试路人的恶作剧,那么如果施救路人电话120,救护车的出车费用谁来支付?或者有人病了,倒在街头,还有神志但是就是不要去医院,你叫来的救护车怎么办?

如果我在路上救助了一个无家可归身无分文的病人,那么他的诊疗费用怎么负担?假如也是我的责任,那么我花光了自己所有积蓄后还不够怎么办?这个医疗费用谁来买单?政府?国家?目前有没有这样的法律来保证?如果没有,那么我倾家荡产救助一个人,除了免于自己犯法外,还有什么意义?

另外,最重要的一点,如果一个贫苦人家里有危重病人,是不是医生上下班时间送到医院门口就可以了,医院作为法人单位就算没有自由人义务,那么里面进出的大夫是不是都有啊?这样的话,一定雷锋遍地了。

Thursday, November 3, 2011

加拿大过境签证

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Thursday, October 27, 2011

小悦悦事件

作者:羡慕李白 回复日期:2011-10-27 22:59:15 
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  大家看到我 大家看到我~~~~我思考了一下 觉得这个情况最接近真相。
      我打电话问了一个当医生的朋友,他说小悦悦这种伤情,死亡原因确实是因为车祸所致,但是他也说了一句话 这种伤情感觉是车的撞击伤,就是我们俗话说的把人给撞飞了,而不是碾压伤。。。。。。
      我又想起鑫感觉让我们注意孩子住院的时间,忽然理清了整个事情的经过。
      一 最开始的时候 确实有个孩子 不知道叫不叫悦悦 被车撞飞了 所以会出现颅骨骨折 全身擦伤之类的明显车伤。最后伤重不治 21日死亡。就是我们看见的医院那一个小孩子。
      二 可能是孩子的家人或者朋友和媒体很有关系,于是就去找媒体,媒体看这个新闻不劲爆。于是就想着策划一个劲爆点的 于是思考出了一个小孩被压死,而路人冷漠之类的新闻来抓人眼球。
      三 我们看见的视频是假的 所有的一切都象拍电影那么拍的 而且还找了一个孩子来当演员,他们可能最想找个2岁的孩子 但是2岁的孩子拍戏难度太高 家长也不愿意 所以只有找个大点的孩子 这也就是大家怀疑孩子年纪不对 一起出演的还有一个大布娃娃道具 当然而真正受伤死亡的孩子 就是的两岁左右。
      四 拍的时候 有时候是真孩子,有时候是大布娃娃 大家可以参考拍电影 拍完后还有删减之类的 关键时候模糊化 有路人是真的经过 也有路人是假冒的 但是老实说拍得不成功 太假了 比如司机忽然加速 打方向盘 甚至有人说在伸头看 还有孩子妈妈的出场也太假了。这说明 群众演员也是很重要的。
  这也解释了为什么我们看上去都压到胸口了 而真实死亡孩子的伤却没有这个。
  而且路人的冷漠也好解释了
  五 司机也没啥压力啊 因为在拍戏 大家也都注意到了车牌看不见 这是因为怕人肉 而且这辆车压了孩子后还没走 在镜头那边等着拉人回去呢。
  
   六 肯定有人问阿婆了 阿婆是不是串通的?我觉得不是 阿婆的出现是个意外 打乱了他们这种拍戏进程 他们本来准备拍18个人的 啊婆捡起来的 是个洋娃娃 所以孩子妈妈很生气的出来 一把抢走娃娃 那有人要问为什么阿婆不说 因为他们可以威胁阿婆啊 你要是不说 见义勇为的称号 是你的 你还会得到很多钱 你要是到处说了 小心一点 说实话 不要说一个老婆婆 就是我们也很难做到这种情况下还坚持真理吧 而且最后闹这么大 说出来的话 大家都不会信 就是信了 也会指责阿婆 所以阿婆很快的把自己的钱捐出来 然后离开了。
      这里我不是质疑啊婆 她抱起娃娃的时候可能没想到这是假的 而是真心想救这个孩子 她的见义勇为当之无愧 至于她后来不愿意说出实情 我也非常的理解她 老太婆胆子小 而且这种情况 说了更糟糕。
  六 视频里出现的父母 也许是小悦悦的亲生父母 但不可能是死去孩子的亲生父母 这也就解释了为什么他们神态那么轻松 他们只是在演戏而已 。 但钱很有可能是他们收了。他们的孩子 小悦悦 我倾向于没有死 躲开了。
  七 这件事情是媒体策划的 不然不会有那么多的巧合 比如马上有人假冒司机 有人在医院明明免费的情况下要捐款 有人说阿婆想出风头 迅速被很多媒体转播 甚至到了国外 一切一切 都在最开始的时候造成强大的舆论攻势 让大家相信 媒体一拥而上 道德的大帽子先扣下来,由不得你质疑。
  八 被抓的是真正出车祸的司机 他倒是活该 事情本来可能出现真相的 但是由于某人的很快定性 所以 估计是不会改了 。而且里面没有真正死人 孩子父母 媒体和悦悦父母 也算是各取所需。只是愚弄的是我们老百姓 是被冷漠的所有还有血性 有良心的中国人。
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同意,结合最近要通过惩治见死不救法案,需要新闻媒体造势就更好理解了。而且这家电视台据说有过把新闻当电视剧拍“引导舆论”的历史。

这样很多疑问就迎刃而解了。
1 为什么事发地点恰好是镜头中央
2 为什么还在被撞前一直回头(导演指挥,毕竟小演员年纪太小,理解能力差)
3 为什么妈妈抱孩子之前下意识擦一下手(自己孩子身上再脏也没有这个下意识动作,但是换成一个脏兮兮的布娃娃就好理解了)

Monday, October 17, 2011

今天要做到事情

1 收拾办公室的桌面 (15 min)
2 收拾家里餐桌和沙发 (15 min)
3 physical therapy
4 锻炼:游泳 1000 yard 划船机 30 min
5 工作 120 min
6 Drupal 120 min

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

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Thursday, September 8, 2011

最近要做到事情

1 填税表
2 交TJMaxx CC (done)
3 交HOA fee
4 把USOPen票寄回去

Friday, June 17, 2011

How Can I get Better at Tennis Without Just Working on Strokes?

http://www.articlesbase.com/sports-and-fitness-articles/how-can-i-get-better-at-tennis-without-just-working-on-strokes-205445.html#axzz1Pb18Qz7U


How Can I get Better at Tennis Without Just Working on Strokes?
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I recently received an email from a 4.5 tennis player in the USA who proposed the following question: I could use some help with a plan to get better. I am a 4.5 rated player in the USA and would like to be a 5.5. For some reason, I can't find a tennis coach that will help with an overall plan; they just want to work on strokes. Any ideas?

After coaching tennis at a big country club in Texas for over five years I often faced the same question from our tournament players who felt as if they had plateaued and that by just getting out on the court and working on their strokes was just not taking them to the next level. As a tennis coach you need to be flexible and be able to analyse each player and create a plan for their own specific and individual needs. This means taking into account all of the factors or variables that make a great player.

The professional tennis players cover all areas and there is no reason why you can't incorporate some of their training plans with a club level player. As you will see below I discuss and cover some specific areas from physical, psychological, tactical and so on which are often neglected by a coach who only sees their role as working on strokes.

So for our 4.5 player I would talk to him about focusing on some of the following areas that will help him to get to that next level without working on just strokes.

Psychological:
Game Plan: Work on your game plan. That is; have you scouted your next opponent? Do you have your own game plan ready so that you can control the match how you want to play it? Do you have a back-up plan in case your first plan is not working?

Concentration: Telling yourself to concentrate harder will not work. However, if you can put into place pre-game, in-game and post-game routines then you will be able to remain more focused on the task at hand. In between points allow you mind to relax and bring back your focus when you step up to the line to serve or return. The human mind cannot focus continuously so it is pointless to try and do so.

Scout Your Opponent: If you are in a tournament then go and have a look at your next opponent. Analyse and look at how they play, what is their favourite shot, what are their weaknesses, do they struggle on the big points, do they always go for their favourite shot on a big point, do they have a big shot and so on. Once you have this information then go away and create a game plan to beat this player.

Routines: Have a routine for in-between points that will help you maintain control and composure when either winning or losing. Once again this allows you to have control over how the game is played.

Goal Setting: I know, you have all heard this before but I cannot stress enough that as soon as you write down some realistic goals on paper you will immediately feel that you have direction and something to train for. It is a great feeling when you achieve a goal and can move on to the next one.

Physical:
Footwork: One of the most common problems I faced with club level players was that they had poor footwork which led to poor execution on their shots. Many coaches spend hours and hours trying to teach a player the correct stroke technique when a lot of the time the real issue is that they don't set up properly for the shot and then as a result being out of position causes the player to use bad technique. Incorporate some of the tennis specific footwork drills that we have provided in our eBooks.

Strength: Maybe you are lacking the physical strength to gain those few extra miles on your serve. One way to add more power to your serve without just hitting serves for hours on end is to hit the gym! Have an experienced gym trainer develop a weight training program to increase your strength and watch your serve become faster and more of a weapon!

Speed: Maybe you are not fast enough on the court. Being too slow will negatively impact your strokes. You may not recover fast enough after being out of position, maybe you don't get to the ball in time and as a result do not properly execute the shot. Speed is a weapon! Just ask Lleyton Hewitt or Rafael Nadal and you will soon see how speed is used to their advantage.

Flexibility: This is often a neglected area. Besides the known benefits of preventing injuries there are many direct benefits to improving on-court performance. One of my friends, Mark Wellington, trained Maria Sharapova for a couple of years and he always mentioned how he placed great emphasis on flexibility and teaching Maria how to move on the court. Having greater flexibility will help you to recover after each shot and get back in position more quickly for the next shot.

Endurance: Tennis is often described as an "Anaerobic" sport due to the nature of reasonably short points. However, you need to train your aerobic system so that you can sustain a high level of play right up until the end. Often a player may be losing matches simply because they fade away. All of those hours working on strokes won't help you if you run out of gas!

Reflexes: By improving your reflexes you can become more competent at the net as well as improving other areas of your game such as the return of serve. Many players just do not react quickly enough to a fast serve. As a result they make errors on the return of serve or just don't get the ball back into play.
Tactical: Have you ever played against someone who was more technically "inferior" to you in the sense that their strokes were not very efficient but they just always had a knack of wining? We all have at some point in out tennis careers! Some players are just match tough. They know how to break down an opponents' game. They know how to create a game plan that will be successful. They have that ability to win the big points.

So what you need to do is analyse your own game plan. Do you have one when you step on the court? Do you have the ability to stick with a winning game plan but also change a losing one? This is where you can ask your coach to work with you. Spend a whole lesson playing points and have your coach talk to you about how you construct your points. No stroke technique just a "Match Play" lesson. This will give you a perspective from an opposing player of what they see in your game.

General:
Technique: Make sure that you have correct technique on all of your shots. If you have a visible weakness then you can count on your opponent exploiting this shot.

Matches! Matches! Matches! I can't stress enough how important it is to play matches. You cannot simply practice or just do lessons and then expect to perform when in a competitive situation. You need to play more matches and as a direct result you will become more match tough, more experienced in dealing with different players and will also be able to see what areas you need to improve on when in a match. You could even have a friend use match evaluation forms to scout your match and then afterwards you can see what areas exactly you need to work on. Remember: be a match play and not just a practice player!

When I coached competitive ladies teams, I tried to build a lot of my drills based around "live ball" or "match like" drills rather than just feeding drills. The more point based drills you do the more comfortable you will be in a real match as these drills simulate match play that includes the unpredictability rather than the predictable ball fed by a coach.

Practice Partners: Train with players better than you! If you are a 4.5 - are you always playing with 4.5 players? If so and you want to get to a 5.5 then go out and play with those better players who will help to raise the level of your game. If your practice partner is not pushing you hard enough then find a new one. Join a drill session that has these better players. You will soon be forced to raise the level of your game in order to compete with these guys.

Many clubs have a Saturday morning group training session for men. You could ask your club coach what other drill sessions you could join.

Variety: If you practice with the same players all the time then you will become one dimensional and become accustomed to their game styles. Unfortunately, when you are in a tournament and face a totally different game style you will not know how to play them. So, get out there and play as many different players as you can. Some the same level as you and some better at the 5.5 level.

Consistency: Way too often matches are lost by the player making too many simple and unforced errors. First become a strong consistent player and then work on the big shots. If you continuously beat yourself with simple errors how do you ever expect to win? Force your opponent to beat you. Reduce your errors by making having shot selection.

Big Shot: once you have developed consistency then you may just need a "big shot" to beat those 5.5 players. Ideally work on a big serve or a big forehand. Even developing a great kick serve can be used as a weapon. A big shot will intimidate your opponent.

Drills: When training use more live ball or match play drills. Set specific goals for each session and then use our GSC drills to build on your strengths and also improve on those weaker areas. There are hundreds of new drills in our eBooks or on our site so use them! If your coach just wants to feed all of the time then you will not be reaching your full potential. Choose drills that are based on point play and simulating match play. The transition into real matches will be much easier for you.

Summary:
Improve on the following areas:
Game plans
Routines
Improve on the "mental aspect" of the game
Concentration
Goal setting
Play more matches
Improve shot technique
Play against various players
Improve your speed, strength, flexibility, reflexes and footwork
Improve consistency
Develop a big shot
Join an extra league for more match practice
Add more shots to you game (eg. slice backhand, kick serve or drop shot)
Scout future opponents to get a jump on them
Play with better players than you to help raise your level
Find a great practice partner with similar goals to you
The beauty about the game of tennis is that there is always something to work on. The hard part is to know when you are wasting your time on the wrong things. Are you a match player or a practice player? Quite simply, conduct a review of your entire game and then analyse each area. When I worked with elite athletes as an Exercise Physiologist I would have to conduct what we called a "Needs Analysis" which was quite simply conducting and reviewing every area involved with the athlete and their sport. Then devising a plan to improve every aspect or variable.

Good Luck and take control of your own destiny!



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Friday, April 1, 2011

Monday, March 14, 2011

关于网球

Tennis is a sport where you don't have to be good, you just have to be better than your opponent --Aggassi



It is not the one who has better technique wins but the one who better uses his technique wins a match.



What I need to learn is:
1 drop shot (back hand, forehand, short ball, long ball)
2 slice serve


Friday, March 11, 2011

一些歌

草原之夜

【美麗的夜色多沉靜,草原上只留下我的琴聲。想給遠方的情郎寫封­信耶,可惜沒有郵遞員來傳情。】【等到千里雪消融,等到草原上送­來春風。可克達拉改變了模樣耶,情郎就會來伴我的琴聲。】【來!­情郎就會來伴我的琴聲。來!情郎就會來伴我的琴聲。】


Saturday, March 5, 2011

关于癌症,摘抄于娟博客及评论

癌症病人的自我心理治疗
科学研究表明,不同的心理可以致癌,治癌,防癌。
1:心理致癌:人类在同癌症斗争过程中发现,抑郁悲伤的心理,紧张的情绪,应激的反应和沉重的精神压力,可以成为癌症的诱因。在牵肠挂肚,忧虑悲观的情绪之后,癌症往往会乘虚而入。
癌症与患者内心冲动有关,长期过度的紧张与焦虑不安,刺激中枢神经系统,可导致大脑兴奋与抑制失调,抑御癌症的自身免疫系统的减弱,从而使体内某些细胞发生癌变。
人每天处于高度紧张环境中,可引起血液中皮质脂醇的浓度迅速增加,导致免疫器官中T,B淋巴细胞和其他免疫成分的破坏,不能及时消除体内突变细胞,于是患癌症的可能性就明显增加了。
忧郁,焦虑,失望和难以解脱的情绪变化时间大多数在癌症前1至2年。
“癌性格”与癌症
所谓“癌性格”是心理学家首先提出的。这种具有“癌性格”的人,有其特殊的行为和举止,尤其是心理上也有特殊的外形。如从小对任何事物莫不关心,孤独内向,不与亲友或父母接近,成人后依恋一个人或自己的职业,并将自己的精力倾注于自己的配偶,孩子和工作,一旦遭到挫折,这种人一般容易在两年内发生癌症。
心理治癌:正象失常的心理会成为致癌的前提一样,健康充实的心理则同样是站胜癌症的重要条件。许多事实证明,一个决心战胜癌症的人,能够存活和延长生命的机会要多的多。
有很多癌症病人一旦获悉自己身患绝症,便不思饮食,悲观失望。而事实上医生应该让病人明白,他的免疫系统仍然存在,并且仍在与癌症进行斗争,关键是需要病人适当地调节,配合治疗,充分发挥机体免疫功能。
当然,在危及生命的癌症面前,建立足够的信心和保持异常的冷静是一种很难的事情。但有经验的肿瘤专家都认为,有些肿瘤本来是致命的,正是由于病人以健康的心理对待癌症,以顽强的毅力克服病痛,才能使自己存活下来延长生命。
心理防癌:在明白了非正常的心理可以导致癌症发生和有助于患癌症的症状向严重的方向发展的道理以后,人们认识到,以乐观的情绪,健康的心理投入到生活中去,是减少癌症发生和延续生命所必不可少的。



试一试这个药方??? 就当水喝,肯定比绿豆水有效果

药方:红枣大的八粒,小的十粒(共十八粒) 
  铁树一叶       
半枝莲一两      
  白花蛇舌草二两
   服法:四味药为一剂可煎两次  第一次用水量大约十五碗煎两个小时,第二次约十碗水煎两小时,然后将药汤倒起日夜当茶饮服
说明:
    一 该药主治各种癌症.根据服法结果,已经治愈了肠癌,肝癌,子宫癌,胃癌等,除乳癌效果差点外,其他癌症都有良好效果,特别是肠癌,只服四到六小时就起异常效果.
    二 平时每月煎一次服用,因该药药性对脏腑之热素及生痔疮,热咳等症,服后都有确实生效且能彻底治愈
三 注意说明:半枝莲,清凉无毒,是排污草药,服后不能饮用开水,恐其冲淡药效,如果癌症三花(就是表面能看见烂的),可将刚生长的新鲜草药捣烂取其汁,将渣敷于患处,其汁用水热烧当茶喝,此药不分男女老少,服用三至四个月,方能彻底全愈,服用后大小便有浓血排出,这反映毒物,清除后即止,可免惊疑。
四 此方是一个犯人在执行死刑前三天供出来的,因恐死后失传,到目前为止,治愈者无数,是救人一大积德!
希望复印转发邻居亲友多作善事
附注:此方与六十六年十月二十五日中国时报第七版登刊之内容相同



话说光头的师母早我半年得肠癌,于是胡老师夫妇成了我们求医问药取经问道的生命导师。师母吐得非常非常厉害,开始什么止吐药都不管用。强悍的人生不是遇不到问题,而是遇到问题的时候必然有强悍的解决方式。师母女儿是美国的医学博士,竟然被她找到了一种大家都很难知道的叫做止吐灵还是灭吐灵的神奇止吐针。这物件神奇不仅仅是说它威力无比,超过了一支千元以上的美国日本所有的进口药,而是神奇在它只有0.14人民币。0.14,这个价钱在超市,估摸着收款机都打不出来,但是它止住了师母翻江倒海的吐。若有病友同样遇到这个问题,请去乡郊野外社区医院找找这个0.14的灭吐灵。它太便宜,所以医生不开,医院不卖,药房不售。师母他们是在诸如社区医院找到的,据说后来也不见了。我因为不太吐,没有用过这神物,来源不详,只能提供这样一个信息,原谅我有心无力帮不到什么。
我后来总结,很多化疗呕吐可能都和家属毫无饮食或者食疗经验造成的。话说第二次化疗,光头刚好研究到白木耳对增白和抗癌有作用,于是煞费苦心把紫砂煲搬到病房洗手间给我煲了一夜的银耳红枣粥,第二天早晨,浓香粘稠,我虽然没有胃口,也勉强吃了一碗。然后差点死过去。事后师傅周阿姨告诉我,银耳虽好,但是伤胃,早晨空腹最好不要吃,然后说了一句让光头哭笑不得的话“这是常识呀”
化疗还是吃点糯软好消化的东西,化疗做好了再去抗癌补食也不迟。抗癌是个长期工程,世界上没有那么多毕一功于一役的事情。

Friday, January 28, 2011

最近买的东西

1 买了一个touch screen tablet (Dino)
2 买了一双网球鞋 (tenneswarehouse)
3 买了一双网球鞋,一双跑步鞋 (joesnewbalance)
4 买了一个网球拍 (个人)
5 买了一件衣服给贾金峰 (cabel's)



1 硬盘播放器 (记住要寄出mail in rebate的表格)
2 三星470蓝牙耳机 (有20 rebate) newegg
3 三星475蓝牙耳机 (有20 rebate) woot

emule/网盘/在线的资源

电驴:
http://www.qvocd.com/
http://www.simplecd.org/
http://www.verycd.com/groups/
http://hi.baidu.com/%B5%E7%C2%BF%D6%AE%BC%D2/blog/item/19ce9d1039d25930dc540178.html
http://www.verycd.com/groups/



网盘:
http://hi.baidu.com/gxd2980449/blog/item/b2adfe0657765868030881f9.html
http://avipzone.com/forum/
http://www.ftp8.co.uk/index.php




在线
http://www.atdhenet.tv/
http://www.soccertvlive.net/
http://www.livescorehunter.com/

Monday, January 3, 2011

我要做到事情

1 交HOA费
2 和BOA交涉monthly fee问题
3 寄包裹
4

Sunday, January 2, 2011

麻辣烤鱼



麻辣烤鱼,food版看来的方子,觉得跟我当年迷水煮鱼有一拼了,我其实不能吃辣
这个鱼真是边辣边馋,很好吃


随便什么鱼一条,两面划几刀,鱼身内外用料酒和盐抹一遍,然后再抹一遍油,腌一会
儿,刀口埋上姜片。
洋葱半个切圈,姜片若干铺烤盘,上面放上腌好的鱼,400F烤半个小时
烤鱼的时候制作酱料,中小火炸花椒,炸透了之后捞出花椒(不捞也行,我不喜欢吃到
花椒的感觉)火稍微开大点,放入干红辣椒炸一小会儿,注意别炸焦了,加豆瓣酱和大
量蒜片炒香,炒出红油后加切丝的辣椒炒软,然后加水,酱油,糖,白胡椒粉调味,酱
料的量差不多能没过鱼身的样子就好了
烤好的鱼边上撒上芹菜段(别撒鱼身上),倒入酱汁,还是400F再烤15分钟就好了
我们昨天买的鱼有点大,我多烤了一会儿。
这个菜也适合吃火锅的时候做,剩下的汤汁可以当汤底的
我们昨天用这个汤汁拌饭,真好吃啊!推荐!